If I came home from school and saw black overshoes on the kitchen rug, I
knew my dad was around somewhere. Maybe out in the back yard moving the
sprinkler, in the garage tinkering with his 1955 black hardtop convertible
Thunderbird, or, more likely, in his basement officer talking up a storm with
one of his customers.
Dad worked as a salesman and wore the overshoes when we went to meet with
customers at their homes. This way, he could enter their houses and remove his
galoshes, but keep his clean shoes on. I didn't understand why he didn't just
remove his brown wingtips and go in his stocking feet. Maybe he would have
felt exposed, too intimate that way. Or maybe it was about maintaining his
professionalism while showing respect for his customers. I'll never know for
sure now.
When I was too little to remember, my dad owned and operated a service
station with a friend. My only memory connected to his work at that time was
the ribbing he got when he went to the shop sporting a cartoon character Band-Aid
covering a cut on his finger. He moved on from car repair when I was still
quite young, but his love of cars never dissipated.
He had a bread route for a while. On rare occasions we were allowed to ride
along in the truck. I don't remember there being seats, much less seat belts,
but I do remember the smell of fresh bread and bakery. And we almost always
scored a mini lemon pie when the work was done.
Dad sold a variety of products during my childhood - insurance, milking
equipment, water purifiers, and vitamins are what comes to mind. We
"helped out" in his office once in a while. I remember doing a little
filing, but mostly, goofing around with my sisters and cleaning out the candy
dish.
I think what my dad liked most about his work, and life in general, was
interacting with people. He always had a joke and a smile, and truly loved to
help. Finding the right solution for someone's problem seemed to be his
greatest reward. He and my mom did fine financially, but that never seemed to
be the biggest reason for doing what they did. It was more about helping other
people.
I too love helping people, and have had my own business for over 20 years.
Times have changed since my dad wore overshoes to his home appointments, but
his lessons of respect for others and the desire to help have not. These are
lessons I will never forget. Thanks Dad.
Friday, June 27, 2014
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